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When I got this, it was simply too good for me alone to read and be blessed! It's a MUST read for self development! 1. Make friends with successful people and occasionally buy them gift and surprise them with lunch because successful people always give and hardly get, so when you give them, they value the gift a lot. 2. Get a mentor and follow his instructions and respect the relationship. Never beg your mentor for money or disrespect his or her privacy. 3. Make new positive friends as often as possible and ensure you keep the communication line open. Create a network of friends and not just connections. 5. Show kindness to everyone. Some small boys today will be big boys tomorrow. The biggest dog in the neighborhood was once a puppy. And keep the information/secret to yourself. 6. Always plan ahead and be proactive. He that plans the future work less in the future. 7. Listen to speeches and messages from great teachers. Both religious and educational. 8. Attend semin...

Some stress is good for us; it keeps us on our toes, allows us to think outside the box and come up with new, innovative ideas on occasion. However, a recent survey on work-related stress, anxiety and depression (the Labour Force Survey 2016) found that the number of days lost in 2016 due to stress-related issues was 11.7 million days, equating to 45% of all working days lost to ill-health. Let's look at four areas where there can be stress in the workplace. -  Stress and your work.  Do you feel that you understand what is expected of you, that you've been trained well enough? Perhaps you feel that your work is mundane, that your boss doesn't pass on the interesting or challenging tasks, preferring to keep them for him or herself. Those employees who have no responsibility or autonomy can become increasingly stressed, bored or frustrated. A lack of recognition and appreciation can also result in people feeling stressed. What can be done about it, are there ways to r...

1. Psychology says, friendship is not about who you spend the most time with, it’s about who you have the best time with. 2. Psychology says, Intelligent people tend to care less about the opinions of others, they also enjoy being alone because of great sense of self. 3. Psychology says, People who regularly help others are significantly happier and less likely to become depressed as they get older. 4. Psychology says, ironically, the more you hide your feelings, the more they show. The more you deny them, the more they grow. 5. Psychology says, A true friend who understands your troubles is far more valuable than a hundred friends who only show up for your smiles. 6. Psychology says, Bad relationships change good people. 7. Psychology says, that sometimes you love someone so much that not even the truth can change your mind.

When young, most of the people are only interested in how a person looks and how he/she makes them look when in public places. When they get older and looking for life partners, many people look for other qualities other looks. If you are at that stage where you feel that you are ready to settle down, here are the qualities that you should look out for in a partner: Shared interests According to relationship experts, having common interests strengthens a relationship. The common interests can be as simple as having a fondness for certain types of food or as advanced as completing a complex puzzle. When you have common interests with your partner you will have something to talk about. This brings you closer thus you live with your partner for a long time without getting bored. When looking for a partner, you shouldn't look for one that shares all of your interests. One common interest is enough to bring you close thus have a beautiful, long term relationship. Respect It...

It will take just 60 seconds to read this and change your thinking.. Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.. Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats...

Social acceptance is a comfort many may take for granted. However when you have been labeled as I have as a person who struggles with mental illness there arises a great discomfort as those who love you or maybe even perfect strangers become aware of your label and what they think they know about the subject. As a person who has experienced some successes in life first as a television news anchor for several years and once as an attempted law student whose illness left me short of the J.D., persons didn't' see me as the "type" who would struggle from mental illness. Some may have a mental picture of a screaming person full of foul language who's busting out car windows when they think of the word "Bipolar". Truth is persons from every walk of life can struggle with this illness and many go undiagnosed. PRAY IT AWAY WHY DON'T YOU What has been steadfast in my efforts to understand my disease process, are my questions to God. Knowing that some peopl...

If you have been struggling to lose weight, improve a relationship, find a new job or just have more fun, the answer may be in your mindset. Mindset is a concept developed over a decade ago by Stanford University psychologist Carol Dweck through her research to understand how people cope with failures. Dweck defines mindset as the view we adopt of ourselves and proved that it can profoundly affect how we live our lives. She found that people generally fall into two categories, those with a fixed mindset and those with a growth mindset. A "fixed" mindset suggests that our intelligence, ability and personality are carved in stone and do not change much over our lifetime. An example of this mindset might be "I am not athletic"" or "I am a math person" which suggest that these traits can't change. The downside to a "fixed" mindset is these kinds of beliefs limit personal growth. By contrast, a "growth" mindset suggests that ind...

*WISE WORDS* ```In life, some may walk, others may run, but remember the Lord gave the tortoise and the horse the same days to reach Noah's ark. Your journey might be rough and tough but you will definitely get to your destination. Jacob looked at Joseph and saw a good son! The ten brothers looked at Joseph and saw a useless dreamer! The travellers looked at Joseph and saw a slave!! Potiphar looked at Joseph and saw a fine servant!! Potiphar's wife looked at Joseph and saw a potential boyfriend! The prison officers saw in Joseph a prisoner! How wrong were all of them! God looked at Joseph and saw a Prime Minister of Egypt in waiting!! Don't be discouraged by what people see in you!! Be encouraged by what God sees in you!! Never underrate the person next to you because you never know what the Lord has deposited in that person. Your maid may be a Chief Executive Officer in waiting for a company which shall employ your child. Your garden-boy may be a president in waiting. ...

√THE POWER OF LOVE√ (1Corinthians 13:13, John 15:12) •The Problem we have with Love is with expressing it. We all have the capacity to Love, but if love is not properly expressed, it cannot be proven to be Love. •Don't expect to express love effectively when you don't know How to Love. •Who your teacher is determines the Authenticity of the level of information you have. •Life is never done by 'Guess Work'. God should teach us how to Love. •Any act of Love that is void of God is wrong. •We're expected to love people just the way God loves us. The way to love the way God loves is to let God possess you and love people through you. *How God Loves* •The first corruption of love is often because people need something. Love is about what to Give, and not about what to Get. •God made love so that man can be a recipient of this love. If you give without expecting to receive, you'll definitely receive. The problem we have with Love is Selfishness...

how to get inspired a) believe in yourself. you are better than you think. b) be hopeful. hope sets success in motion. c) don't quit. times don't stay tough. easier days are ahead. d) value yourself. give yourself a treat. your are more important than your to-do list. e) be positive. things can turn out even better than you've dreamed. f) keep it clean. be focused. you shine brighter than the sun, moon and stars put together. g) do it today. don't procrastinate.believe in the power of today.

TRUTH OF STRUGGLES FOUND IN MARRIAGES/RELATIONSHIPS AND SOLUTION I have discovered that love alone doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love alone cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. Have you wondered why/ how people love and still cheat? Relationships work out mostly because of our HEADS not our HEARTS. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, love alone will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life. The t...

THE CANDLE BURNING IN MY HEART The candle burning in my heart could never be blown out its burning love for you and from the mountains I will shout And the candle speaks the words of love from my heart to you every beat of my heart says your name with love so very true When your eyes of love looks into mine the butterflies starts to fly holding me tightly in your arms my heart meets them in the sky Untill the end of our days we will always be in love together as long as our love never dies the candle in my heart will burn forever Written for my love (DVNC) chizim2002@yahoo.com

Through my oxfold I view the world In a very special mood So I can understand the hood Through the expression In my stalled action Of the craving motion In the pick of decision I noted: in giving we get In risking we started For the best is yet to be created So don't get defeated.

When I retire to bed every evening ruminating over life, I discovered that: Sometimes, to succeed in life you need ENEMIES.... Yes!!! You need people who will mock you, so that you can run to God. You need people who will try to intimidate you, so that you can be courageous. You need people who will say "NO" so that you can learn how to be independent...I mean how to do it yourself. You need people who will disappoint you so that you can put all your trust in God alone. You need people who will work towards you loosing that job, so that you can start your own big business. You need people who will sell your 'Joseph' so that 'you' can get to Egypt and be a Prime Minister in a strange land of captivity. You need a cruel landlord, so that you won't be too comfortable in someone else's house, then you can build your own house on time. But sometimes, when we are disappointed, we feel very bad and we tend to remain on that spot. Not kn...

As I rose this morning, I had no idea what was waiting for me. Knelt down and thanked God Almighty for grace and mercy. Just got dressed to go out with a heart full of gratitude when I heard a knock on my door. A dispatcher with one big wrap was standing right on my door. Yes how may I help you? Good morning! I quickly said admiring his awesome bright smile that blended with his smartly well ironed suit. Great morning to you sir, he said with a beaming smile. You know by that time no one is expected to be on duty except on special request and as my brain was running it's analysis on the possible reason behind this, I got a call. It's my lady and God knows that this dispatcher had just delayed me because I normally calls her on my to work. Hello! I answered the call and I used my hand to motion to the young man 'excuse me'. 'Baby, I kinda don't want you to go to work, I....', she was trying to say things but my usual self, I blu...

It's that time of the year we are all expectant. It's the eight month. It's that awesome time for great harvest. It's the fulfilling month. I pray for success! I pray for Divine visitation! I pray for graceful maturation!  I pray for bountiful harvest! Your expectations can not be cut short! God will lift you above your desires! People will appreciate the glory of God in you! Blessed will honour you and call you blessed! Happy new month. May all your requests be granted, Amen! http://paydotcom.net/r/15630/Daeagle/27482263/ chizim2002@yahoo.com #SureMoneyBoy #Gracias